Morning Teaser: 'I caught my fiance in bed with his married ex-lover'

Christy and Odion's wedding has been fixed for October but she is afraid of going into it after catching him sleeping with his married ex-lover.

"Dear Pulse,

My name is Christy, a 28-year-old woman. I work with a consulting firm in Lagos and my wedding to Odion has been fixed for October but I am not sure I will want to go ahead with the marriage.

The reason for my decision stems from the fact that one month to our wedding, I caught him having sex with his married ex-lover whom he swore never to have anything with again.

I met Odion three years ago at the wedding of a colleague. He was one of the groom's men and I noticed immediately that he kept stealing glances at me throughout the ceremony. I was not surprised when he cornered me when I went out of the reception hall to take a call.

After exchanging pleasantries, he requested for my number which I gave to him. After that day, Odion kept calling me and after two weeks, we went on a date and he asked me out. I did not have a serious relationship then and I decided to give him a chance.

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One thing I found out about Odion was that he had so many flings which he told me meant nothing to me and that he wanted to settle down with me.

On the first year anniversary of our meeting, Odion proposed to me and I accepted on the condition that he would not have anything to do with another woman as I did not want to share my man with another woman.

Though I knew he still sneaked around behind my back, he carefully hid it from me and since I did not have any evidence to confront him, I kept quiet, hoping he would get tired of it and know that he would soon get married.

We have done all the necessary preliminary rites for our wedding including the introduction, the wine carrying, and our invitation cards are out and well distributed but Odion did the unthinkable by frolicking with a married woman and that has hurt me so much.

H had told me about the woman, how they were so much in love before she left him to get married to another man and I thought everything had been settled and he had moved on.

But I was shocked to my bone marrows when I walked into his house early this month to see him making love to the married woman. What really hurt me the most was his reaction when he saw me.

Instead of apologizing, Odion was angry at me and asked why I should walk into his house at that time of the day when I was supposed to be at work and without even knocking.

The lady as well did not even betray any shame, rather, she was hostile to me and actually ordered me out of the house.

I didn’t know how I got back to my office that day and before I got home that day, he was already in our house to beg me to forgive him, saying the woman forced herself on him as a parting gift to her as he was getting married.

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I ordered him out of my house and told him the wedding was off. He thought I was joking but I have maintained my stance.

I have told my parents and friends that I am not going through with it and they, including his family, have been begging me but how do I live with a man I know cheated on me with a married woman?

What is the guarantee that he will not continue sleeping with her after we get married? I need advice before I go insane.

Christy."

Dear readers, like they say, a Leopard cannot change its spots but with the impending wedding between Christy and Odion, what should she do? That is the question we are asking on Morning Teaser today.